Valentine Day Activities for Singles

Valentine Day Activities for Singles
Activities that singles celebrating Single’s Day on Valentine’s Day can engage in include:

Valentine Yourself
Celebrate Valentine's Day by treating yourself the way you would expect your Soul Mate to treat you on Valentine’s Day. For example you can:
a. Spend your day shopping
b. Send yourself a card which makes you feel better. For example it can have the message “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”
c. Send flowers to yourself
d. Take yourself out to watch a movie
e. Take yourself out for dinner
f. Buy yourself jewelry 
g. Buy yourself a luxurious Valentine’s day gift basket so that you can spend the entire day savoring its contents. If you are stressed, choose baskets with stress relief products to help you cope with the Valentine Day stress. You can also buy gift baskets of things you love. For example if you are a chocoholic, buy a chocolate gift basket. Other examples of gift baskets that you can buy include:
Natural handmade soap gift basket if you love handmade soap.
Italian foods gift basket if you are infatuated with everything Italian.
Space food gift basket if you have an interest in the outer space.
Cheese gift basket if you cherish cheese.
Aromatherapy gift set if you enjoy using essential oils.
Make up gift sets if you love applying make up.
Perfume gifts sets if you have a passion for perfume.
Candle gift sets if you have a soft spot for scented candles.

Valentine Someone
Remind yourself of all the less fortunate members of your society who in addition to not having someone to celebrate Valentine’s Day with also have other major problems to contend with like life threatening physical illnesses.

Therefore instead of wasting the day pitying yourself, spend it visiting the sick in hospitals and in hospices or the hurting in battered women's shelters and reminding them that God still loves them by:
a. Making or buying several holiday day themed cards with the message "God Loves You" and giving them to residents of those institutions.
b. Buying chocolates and distributing them to the battered women and their children.
c. Buying a bouquet of fresh flowers or even artificial flowers like a satin rose bouquet and giving one stem to each person.
d. Baking chocolate chip cookies and distributing them to the battered women and their children.
e. Using your hobbies to create unique, handmade Holiday day gifts for them such as handmade candles or hand painted cards.

Be Someone’s Secret Valentine
If you have to spend Valentines’ Day at work, decide to be someone’s Secret Valentine and enjoy the day watching glowing as they wonder who has sent them such as lovely present.

Choose someone who is hurting terribly from a recent divorce, separation, broken engagement or terminated long term relationship and do something lovely for them.

For example you can send them a bunch of flowers or a gift voucher for their favorite shop or spa or restaurant anonymously and watch as enjoy them and wonder who loves them so much.

Check into a Spa
Give yourself a special Valentine’s Day gift and check into a Day Spa or a Destination Spa and spend the day receiving tender loving care in the form of pampering pedicures, manicures, massages and facials.

You can even go ahead and buy spa gift certificates for all you single friends so that you can enjoy the pampering together.

Journaling is a very flexible activity since you only need a journal and a pen and you can journal while luxuriating in your languid bath or while hanging on a hammock or while lying in bed or while sipping your favorite smoothie or you can schedule a specific time to sit and write.

There are several things you can journal about during Valentine’s Day. These include:
a) Jot down your feelings about being single. Write without censoring yourself since this is very effective catharsis. Write until you feel the oppressive weight of loneliness and other hurts lifting from your heart.
b) Count your blessings on paper by reminding yourself of all the great things that have happened to you in the past week, month, year, decade and let these activities serve as proof that other great things are going to happen to you in the future including meeting your Soul Mate.
c) Analyze your life to see if you are fulfilling Your Life’s Purpose. If you don’t know your life’s purpose, understand that it involves serving others by doing something that you love while using your gifts and talents. Then formulate realistic and attainable short term and long term goals to fulfill Your Life’s Purpose.
d) Remind yourself that you are special and lovely and lovely by writing down all the attributes that make you a special and lovely and loveable person. These can include:
1. I am wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14)
2. I am honest
3. I am caring

Singing reduces tension and helps you relax.
Your favorite CDs

Engage in Complementary Hobbies
Spend some time experimenting and enjoying hobbies that complement your day job so that you can balance your life and relax . For example:
a) If you are a blogger or internet marketer and you spend most of your days glued to your computer, engage in a hobby that does not involve the use of machine such as drawing or painting.
b) If your jobs entails mental concentration with minimal physical activity you can, engage in physically challenging activities such as stretching or aerobic exercises which reduce the levels of circulating stress hormones and result in the release of endorphins which make you feel good as well as weight bearing exercises which tone your body and help you look better.
You can also utilize this time to take home based courses and learn about new things. For example you can take an:
a) Aromatherapy Course and discover how you can use essential oils to improve your health.
b) Home Decor Course and learn how to better decorate your home.
c) Wedding Planning Course and plan your future wedding in faith or begin a side gig to generate extra income as a wedding planner for your family and friends.
d) Stress Management Course to learn how to manage stress more effectively.

Watch Comedy
Laughter is one of the best ways to chase away the blues on Valentine Day. Activities that you can engage in during the holidays to put a smile on your face include:
1. Watching funny movies or DVDs of your favorite comedians
2. Attending stand up comedy shows
3. Surf clean jokes online
4. Watching clean comedic videos online
5. Reading comics

Go To Church
Attending a Church service and praying for God to send you your Soul Mate is another way of spending Valentine’s Day.
If you cannot get to a Church, spend time reading the Bible to remind yourself of all the other great people who fulfilled their Life’s Purpose while being single like Jesus and Paul.

Prepare a Favorite Foods Feast
Plan in advance to prepare or buy the foods you love eating so that you can look forward to a Favorite Foods Feast. For example if you love spa cuisine you can prepare the following treats to enjoy either in the company of other singles or by yourself. 
Chocolate Dipped Fruit
20 bite sized fruits such as strawberries or 20 apple wedges or 20 pear slices
9 ounces of dark chocolate
Chop the chocolate and melt it in a microwave for 1 minute at 50% power.
Line a baking sheet pan with waxed paper
Pierce each piece of fruit with a toothpick and dip it in the melted chocolate before setting it on the waxed paper.
Pawpaw Smoothie
2 cups peeled sliced bananas
2 cups peeled sliced pawpaw
1 cup yogurt
5 ice cubes
Put all the ingredients in a blender, blend until smooth and serve. 
If you don’t have a blender, you can mash the bananas and pawpaws and sieve them before mixing them with the yogurt. 
Ginger Tea
1 teaspoon peeled grated ginger
1 pinch cinnamon powder
2 cups water
Honey to taste
Boil the ginger and cinnamon in the water for 15 minutes. Sweeten with honey and drink.

Throw a Home Spa Party
Celebrate your singleness by calling your single friends and having a group home spa party or pamper your single self by yourself in your own solitary home spa party.
Activities that you can engage in your home spa party include:
1. Facials
Full facial treatments improve your appearance and their associated therapeutic touch can also improve your mental well being
For starters you can use the products you normally use to clean your face but if you want to experiment, you can try The Honey Cucumber Facial which offers a natural alternative to the commercial ones.
Fresh lemons
Fresh cucumber slices
Cotton balls
Facial sauna
Add 10 drops of fresh lemon juice to 1 cup of warm water and use this to clean your face using a cotton ball. 
Add 10 drops of fresh lemon juice to 1 cup of honey and massage this mixture onto your face for 15 minutes. Feel the lemon exfoliate while the honey moisturizes. 
Wipe off the mixture with a warm wet cloth
Steam your face for 15 minutes
Apply mashed cucumber to your face for 15 minutes and put 2 cucumber slices over your eyes.
Rinse off with warm water
2. Aromatherapy Baths
Warm baths with bath salts, bath oils and calming essential oils can relieve physical aches and mental tension by relaxing tense muscles and alleviating mental strain and thus helping you feel better.
Bath salts
Bath oils
Lavender essential oil
Body cream
Beeswax candles
Soothing music
Essential oil warmer
To take an aromatherapy bath, fill your bathtub with warm water.
Add a few scoops of scented bath salts or cupfuls of soothing bath oils or 15 drops of relaxing lavender essential oil to the bath water to calm tense minds and wash away dirt and distress.
Boost the tranquil experience by bathing in the warm glow of beeswax candles while listening to soothing background music as lavender essential oil diffuses in the room from essential oil warmers.
Conclude this awesome Home Spa Day activity by wrapping yourself in comforting body creams to rejuvenate your skin and soothe your psyche.
3. Manicures and Pedicures
Manicures and pedicures are nurturing Home Spa Day activities that improve your physical appearance and mental well-being.
Lavender essential oil
Exfoliating scrub
Manicure and pedicure set
Hand and foot moisturizer
Nail polish
Strip off all traces of old nail polish with an acetone free remover
Soak your hands and feet in lukewarm water with soothing lavender essential oil or a lavender bath oil.
Exfoliate your hands and feet with an aromatic scrub
Wash the scrub off with warm water.
Add marbles to the foot bowl and run your feet over them to massage your feet if there is no one to massage them for you
Trim and shape your nails with a clipper and nail file
Slather on an aromatic moisturizer
Finish off by applying two coats of nail polish
4. Massages
The therapeutic touch of massages whether full body massages or scalp, face, neck, hand or foot massages make then tension taming physical treatments.
Lavender essential oil
A carrier oil like sweet almond oil
Add 2 drops (for facial massage) or 6 drops (for a body massage) of lavender essential oil to 10 ml of sweet almond oil or a carrier oil of your choice and apply it to your body using gentle circular motions.
5. Hair Treatments
Hair treatments whether or not they are accompanied by scalp massages improve the condition and appearance of your hair and thus they can also be included in your home day spa agenda.
Hot oil hair treatment
Shower cap
Apply your heated hot oil to your hair, put on a shower cup and let the healing hair oils work their magic into your hair and scalp as you soak in a warm bath or soak in a warm book for at least 10 minutes. 

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