Bible Answers for Marriage Questions

This post is dedicated to providing Bible answers for the marriage queries I receive.
10 Bible verses to help your marriage

10 Bible Verses to Help your Marriage
Bible verses to help your marriage include:
God + You + Your Spouse = A cord of three strands is not easily broken. (Ecclesiastes 4:12) 

A cord of three strands is not easily broken. (Ecclesiastes 4:12)

Husbands love your wives as yourselves. (Ephesians 5:33)

Wives respect your husbands. (Ephesians 5:33)

Marriage is honorable and the marriage bed should be kept pure. (Hebrews 13:4)
Marriage is honorable. (Hebrews 13:4)

The wife does not have authority over how body, her husband does. Similarly, the husband does not have authority over his body, his wife does. Do not deprive each other except after first agreeing to do so in order to devote yourselves to fasting and prayer and then resume marital relations again so that satan does not tempt you. (1 Corinthians 7:4-5)

What God has joined together let no one separate. (Matthew 19:6)
What God has joined together let no one separate. (Matthew 19:6)

Above all things love each other fervently because love covers many sins. (1 Peter 4:8)
Above all things love each other fervently because love covers many sins. (1 Peter 4:8)

Love is patient and kind. It does not envy and it is not proud or conceited. Love does not behave rudely and it is not selfish or irritable. Love does think evil thoughts or rejoice in evil as it rejoices in good. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
Love is patient and kind. Love does not envy. Love is not boastful. Love is not rude. Love thinks no evil. Love rejoices in the truth. Love bears all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

Do not do anything out of self-ambition or conceit. In humility, esteem your spouse as better than yourself. Look out not only for your interests but also for the interests of your spouse. (Adapted Philippians 2:3-4)

A soft answer turns away wrath but a harsh word stirs up anger. (Proverbs 15:1)
A soft answer turn way wrath but a harsh word stirs up anger. (Proverbs 15:1)



10 Bible verses for fighting couples


10 Bible Verses for Fighting Couples

Bible verses for fighting couples include:
Forgive us the wrongs we have done as we forgive those who have wronged us. (Matthew 6:12)

Repay no one evil for evil. (Romans 12:17)

Do not say, "I will do to that person just as they have done to me." (Proverbs 24:29)

Do not let the sun go down on your anger. (Ephesians 4:26)
Do not let the sun go down on your anger Ephesians 4:26

Do not deal treacherously with your wife. (Malachi 2:15)

Husbands live with your wife with understanding ... so that your prayers will not be hindered. (1 Peter 3:7)
Husbands live with your wives with understanding ... so that your prayers will not be hindered 1 Peter 3:7

Wives be submissive to your husbands … so that they may be won over by your conduct when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied with fear. Do not let your adornment be just on the outside – the styling of your hair, wearing gold or putting on fine clothes – rather let it be the hidden person in your heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit which is very precious in the sight of God. (1 Peter 3:1-5)
Do not let your beauty be just on the outside hair styling, wearing gold let it be on the inside with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit which is very precious to God 1 Peter 3:1-5

Put on compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, bearing with one another and forgiving each other.  (Colossians 3:12-13)

Be humble, gentle, patient, bearing with one another in love and making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. (Ephesians 4:2-3)

Love is patient and kind. It does not envy and it is not proud or conceited. Love does not behave rudely and it is not selfish or irritable. Love does think evil thoughts or rejoice in evil as it rejoices in good. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
Love is patient and kind. Love does not envy. Love is not boastful. Love is not rude. Love thinks no evil. Love rejoices in the truth. Love bears all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)



Bible verses for when couples fight


Bible Verses for When Couples Fight
Bible verses for when couples fight and Bible verses for fighting in marriage can be divided into:

1. Bible verses to remind couples to incorporate God in their marriage:
A cord of three strands is not easily broken. (Ecclesiastes 4:12)


Trust in God with all your heart and do not rely on your understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct you. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

With God all things are possible. (Matthew 19:26)

2. Bible verses to remind couples to forgive each other:
Repay no one evil for evil. (Romans 12:17)

Put on compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, bearing with one another and forgiving each other.  (Colossians 3:12-13)

Forgive us the wrongs we have done as we forgive those who have wronged us. (Matthew 6:12)

3. Bible verses to remind couples to resolve their differences quickly:
Can two walk together unless they be agreed? (Amos 3:3)

Do not let the sun go down on your anger. (Ephesians 4:26)

If as you bring your gift to the altar you remember that your spouse has something against you, leave your gift there and first go to reconcile with your spouse and then come and offer your gift to God. (Adapted Matthew 5:23-24)

4. Bible verses to remind couples that they should try and be united even if they have different opinions:
Be of the same mind in the Lord. (Philippians 4:2)

A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined with his wife and the two of them shall become one flesh . (Ephesians 5:31)

What God has joined together let no one separate. (Mark 10:9)
What God has joined together let no one separate. (Matthew 19:6)
5. Bible verses to remind couples that they should avoid hurting each other:
Marriage is honorable and the marriage bed should be kept pure. (Hebrews 13:4)

Do not deal treacherously with your wife. (Malachi 2:15)

Do not commit adultery. (Exodus 20:14)


6. Bible verses to remind couples how they should treat each other:
Husbands love your wives as yourselves and wives respect your husbands. (Ephesians 5:33)

Be humble, gentle, patient, bearing with one another in love and making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. (Ephesians 4:2-3)

Do not do anything out of self-ambition or conceit. In humility, esteem your spouse as better than yourself. Look out not only for your interests but also for the interests of your spouse. (Adapted Philippians 2:3-4)
Above all things love each other fervently because love covers many sins. (1 Peter 4:8)
7. Bible verses to love each other:
Above all things put on love since it is the perfect bond. (Colossians 3:14)

Above all things love each other fervently because love covers many sins. (1 Peter 4:8)

Love is patient and kind. It does not envy and it is not proud or conceited. Love does not behave rudely and it is not selfish or irritable. Love does think evil thoughts or rejoice in evil as it rejoices in good. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
Love is patient and kind. Love does not envy. Love is not boastful. Love is not rude. Love thinks no evil. Love rejoices in the truth. Love bears all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)



Bible quotes on fighting for your marriage


Bible Quotes on Fighting for Marriage
Use the following Bible quotes on fighting for marriage as spiritual warfare prayers to pray for your marriage because the Word of God is the sword of the Spirit. (Ephesians 6:17)  

You can also use these Bible quotes or Scriptures for fighting for your marriage as Christian affirmations to confess when problems show up in your marriage and as Christian meditations to ponder instead of meditating on your marital problems. 

What God has joined together, let no one separate. (Matthew 19:6) 
You can also adapt this Bible verse to What God has joined together let nothing separate so that it includes people and things like money and jobs which may be coming in between you and your spouse. 
What God has joined together let no one separate. (Matthew 19:6)
A husband is not to divorce his wife (1 Corinthians 7:11) and A wife is not to depart from her husband. (1 Corinthians 7:10)

A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife. (Ephesians 5:31)
This is a great Scripture to pray and confess when your in-laws are trying to destroy your marriage. 

Marriage is honorable and the marriage bed should not be defiled. (Hebrews 13:4) 
This is an awesome Bible verse for praying, confessing and meditating on when you are tempted to commit adultery. You can also pray this Bible verse to fight for your marriage if your spouse is committing adultery.
Marriage is honorable. (Hebrews 13:4)

This temptation to commit adultery is not an unusual temptation because other people also face it. But, You God are faithful and You will not allow me to be tempted beyond what I am able to bear. Therefore, I ask You in the name of Jesus to show me the way out of this tempting situation so that I can resist it. (Adapted 1 Corinthians 10:13) This is another good Bible quote to use to fight for your marriage when it is threatened by adultery. 




How to fight for your marriage with God


How to Fight for your Marriage with God

The following steps are a quick guide on how to fight for your marriage with God:
1. Identify the cause of your fights
The following are some of the most common causes of fights in marriages:
a. Money problems
b. Intimacy problems
c. In-law problems

2. Identify Scriptures that address your problem
The Word of God is the sword of the Spirit (Ephesians 6:17) and it therefore the best weapon for fighting the problems in your marriage in prayer. 
a. Money issues 
Heavenly Father we ask you in the name of Jesus to open up a way for us to make money so that we can provide for the needs of our household. (1 Timothy 5:8

b. Intimacy issues
Heavenly Father we ask you in the name of Jesus to help us solve these intimacy problems so that we can be joined together and become one flesh . (Ephesians 5:31)

c. In-law issues
Heavenly Father we ask you in the name of Jesus to help us solve these problems we have with our in-laws because it is written that a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined with his wife. (Ephesians 5:31)

In addition find more Scriptures that address your marital problems and use them for your meditation and to confess over your marriage. 

3. Treat your spouse as if God lives with you
Treat your spouse as if God lives with you by doing what God would expect you to do even if your spouse is treating you badly.

To be able to do this adopt the mindset that you are fighting for your marriage and not fighting against your husband/wife.

Therefore, even if words seem to have failed, fight for your marriage with your conduct for the Bible tells us, Wives, submit to your husbands so that even if some of them do not obey the Word, they will be won over by your conduct even if you do not speak a word. (1 Peter 3:1) Though this Bible verse is addressing women, I believe that men can also use  their conduct to fight for their marriage by treating their wives as God expects them to even if their wives are not obeying God's word. 

4. Seek Christian counseling
Seek professional help from a Christian counselor and attend the counseling sessions even if your spouse will not go.

5. Having done all, stand.
After you have done everything that you can do spiritually and physically for your marriage, continue mentally standing on Bible verses like What God has joined together let no one separate (Matthew 19:6) and God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) as you wait for God to do for you what you cannot do for yourself. 
What God has joined together let no one separate. (Matthew 19:6)

             


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